For years, it's been a tradition for some families to wake up on Sunday mornings and head out the door to hear some great music and listen to a man in a dress say a few words. And no, we're not talking about the Sunday morning service at your local parish... we're talking about a dedicated family-friendly drag brunch at Hamburger Mary's in Orlando.
That's gone now. Once Florida passed a law threatening criminal charges for exposing children to "adult live performances," the restaurant canceled its all-ages shows rather than risk legal trouble.
They weren't going to go down easy, though, and promptly sued the state. This week, there was a major update in the case as a divided federal appeals court told the state it can continue to enforce that law while the underlying case drags (sorry, we couldn't help it) on.
What The Law Actually Does
The law is Florida's 2023 Protection of Children Act. On paper, it bars venues from admitting minors to shows involving nudity, sexual conduct, or lewd exposure, regardless of whether a parent consents. Off paper, Governor Ron DeSantis and the bill's sponsor have both described it, on the record, as a response to drag shows and "Drag Queen Story Time" events specifically.
Hamburger Mary's sued in 2023, arguing the law was too vague for any venue to know when it was breaking it, and a federal judge agreed, blocking enforcement statewide. On August 4, the full U.S. Court of Appeals for the 11th Circuit reversed that block in a 8-5 vote. The case now returns to a trial court in Orlando, and the restaurant says it isn't done fighting.
Is This Really Just About The Children?
The majority of the bench seems to think so. Writing for the court, Judge Andrew Brasher described the law as a plain regulation of obscenity. Preventing kids from seeing sexual content onstage, the majority reasoned, is a rational way to protect their well-being, whatever a parent might otherwise decide. It's a serious argument, and eight judges signed onto it.
Five judges did not. Judge Robin Rosenbaum's dissent compared the law to a guessing game, since a venue can only learn whether its show is illegal by staging it and waiting to see if law enforcement agrees.
A separate dissent from Judge Nancy Abudu dug into the bill's legislative record. She found DeSantis and its sponsor naming drag shows as the target well before the law passed, undercutting the idea that this was ever a neutral obscenity statute.
What Does The Research Actually Say?
There's less hard science here than either side claims. Most relevant research doesn't study drag shows specifically. It has studied children's exposure to LGBTQ+ people and topics more broadly, and the mainstream consensus, backed by the American Psychological Association, has found no evidence that exposure causes harm.
Ashleigh Yule, a Calgary psychologist who specializes in child and adolescent mental health, argues that kids already hold a fluid, developing understanding of gender, and that age-appropriate conversations about it tend to help rather than hurt.
The loudest opposing voice, the "American College of Pediatricians", disagrees, and says this kind of exposure carries real psychological risk. It's worth knowing what that group actually is, though. Watchdog organizations including the Southern Poverty Law Center, along with mainstream medical bodies, describe it as a small, explicitly conservative advocacy group, not the 67,000-member American Academy of Pediatrics it's frequently mistaken for.
The Cost Already Being Paid
Melissa Stewart, the attorney representing Hamburger Mary's, put the practical effect bluntly. Even without a single prosecution, she said the law still works by making the state's queer community "afraid to speak, to perform" in public.
That fear carries a price tag. Drag performer Miss Bouvèé has said Florida's climate around these laws has already cost her more than $10,000 in canceled bookings, with some remaining venues blacking out windows and taping paper over doors so a passerby won't risk corruption should they accidentally glimpse a show from the street. Literally forced to hide in the shadows, supporters argue that the community has already been broken.
Hamburger Mary's own filings say it lost 20 percent of its Sunday reservations once it was compelled to ban families from attending together.
This isn't the first time Florida has aimed at pro-drag families directly, either. Back in 2022, a state lawmaker floated felony charges and the termination of parental rights for any parent who brought a child to a drag show, and Governor DeSantis said his administration was looking into whether Florida Child Protective Services could get involved.
Nobody has actually lost custody of a kid over a Sunday brunch. But the message to parents was clear: your own judgment about your own child doesn't count for much here.
Not every performer is backing away, though. Qommittee, a national group supporting drag artists facing legal pressure, updated its guidance for Florida after the latest ruling with a blunt reminder: the law doesn't ban drag itself, only content in front of minors, so performers should stay cautious but continue to book shows.
Where Do The Faith Voices Land?
Religious voices back the law's supporters too, and not from the sidelines. Mat Staver, a pastor and constitutional lawyer who runs Liberty Counsel, personally filed the brief backing Florida in this exact case. Reacting to the ruling, he said the shows at issue are "becoming more sexually explicit, more pervasive, and more specifically targeting young people."
But his isn't the only Christian voice in Florida. Progressive clergy, including pastors within the Metropolitan Community Churches network that has ministered to LGBTQ+ Christians since 1968, have organized against this same wave of state legislation.
Rev. Craig Cranston, whose Fort Myers congregation is more than half LGBTQ+, has argued that "telling anyone 'you don't belong' is antithetical to the Gospels."
Is This About Protection or Punishment?
This case sits alongside a string of recent fights over how much room religious objection can claim from LGBTQ+ public life, from a Louisiana pastor fired over a pronoun who is now suing in federal court, to an L.A. County employee who sued after simply seeing a Pride flag on his way into work.
Each asks a version of the same question this one does: when "protecting" someone requires pushing another group out of public view, who gets to decide that trade is worth it?
For now, Florida has its answer, and it's an 8-5 answer, not a unanimous one. Hamburger Mary's says their fight continues. So does the queer community they serve.
What do you think: does the state have a legitimate interest in restricting where children encounter drag or wider LGBTQ+ culture? And where should that line sit when even judges can't seem to agree on where the law itself draws it?
7 comments
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The court has obviously never attended a drag story time for children nor a drag family brunch. The performers at these kinds of shows are much more clothed than the NFL cheerleaders or the toddler beauty queen pageants. Maybe that’s the real issue?
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No one says they can’t perform for adults, why must children be exposed at all? The APA is totally in the pocket of WPATH which it refers to on this subject. If you read this correctly children are already fluid? That means easily influenced. How stupid do you need to be? Of course most of those parents arguing for this bought their kids at auction. Or have no children to risk.
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Najah Tamargo-USA
Are we really still making this a thing??? If parents do not want their child to NOT see a drag show, then DON'T take them. As an adult, I have seen many drag shows and found them very fun and entertaining. Let us adults decide what is or isn't appropriate for our kids!! This appears to be just another attack on the LGBTQ+ community.
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The state has no legitimate interest here whatsoever. Basically, the state has seen that drag shows are enjoyable, family friendly fare, and the state is worried that children who are exposed to gender nonconforming individuals is such a setting may start to see those individuals as human beings worthy of love and respect. The state sees that as a dangerous possibility, which is a pretty deranged way to see things.
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You sound like the true woke that you are. Shame on you!
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Men dressing as women is not family friendly. It’s sick, mentally deranged garbage.
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If I want to see a group of Mentally Ill folks parading all their particular forms of Insanity, I'll watch a Session of the Senate on CSPAN.