Woman claims she's had sex with a ghost
"Orgasms I have with my spirit lovers have been way more satisfying than any I've had with ordinary men," Amethyst Realm claims.

A British woman insists that she's had sexual relations with at least 20 ghosts over the past decade. Amethyst Realm, 30, recently appeared on a British TV show to explain her dark secret. Apparently, it all started when Realm and her then-fiancé moved into a haunted house that was also home to a very friendly paranormal being.

She soon began a clandestine relationship with the ghost which lasted for roughly three years before her husband caught them in a compromising position (she says he witnessed a shadowy male shape lying on top of her in bed). Her marriage suddenly over, Realm began seeking out other ghosts for comfort.

Talk about redefining the phrase "spiritual connection."

Finding Love in a Hopeless Place

In total, Realm estimates she's slept with over 20 different phantasmal partners. She appeared destined for a life of spooky one-night stands that is, until a trip to Australia earlier this year changed everything. There, she encountered a very special ghost who she felt an immediate attraction to.

"I'd not had a phantom fling for a while and as I was away on business, starting a new relationship was the last thing on my mind," Realm explained. "Then one day, while I was walking through the bush, enjoying nature, I suddenly felt this incredible energy. A new lover had arrived."

Here's Realm recounting the incident on Britain's "ITV This Morning":

Mystic Mile High Club

Their relationship got off to quite a steamy start. When the ghost accompanied Realm back to the U.K., even plane flight couldn't keep them apart. "I was happy and excited so excited that we had to do something about it," she said. "So we headed to the plane loo and, well, I am now a member of the Mile High Club."

The two are planning to get married soon, and curiously enough, it was the ghost who proposed. "There was no going down on one knee he doesn't have knees. But for the first time, I heard him speak," Realm told reporters. "I could actually hear his voice and it was beautiful. Deep, sexy and real."

Realm's family has apparently been very supportive, and are helping to plan a Pagan wedding ceremony for the happy couple.

Paranormal Pleasure

From the way Realm talks, ghostly love partners are quite the step up from their human counterparts. "Sometimes I get the feeling that I'm being moved," she explains. "Orgasms I have with my spirit lovers have been way more satisfying than any I've had with ordinary men."

Guys: let's hope the rest of the female population doesn't gain access to this special spiritual realm, otherwise we might soon find ourselves playing second fiddle to transparent companions with superior, erm performance in the bedroom.


  1. Alicia's Avatar Alicia

    Good gods! People will say ANYTHING to get attention!

  1. Alan J Meunier's Avatar Alan J Meunier

    This is most certainly a mental health issue, no matter HOW you spin it!

    1. Beth K's Avatar Beth K

      Not necessarily. She could just be writing some imaginative, vivid paranormal erotic fiction in the first person. The curiosity gets her attention and readers/listeners.

  1. Pastor Dsve's Avatar Pastor Dsve

    Oh come on let's not fall for every story we hear. Every bad thing we blame the Devil for. It's time we own up to the truth. No one made us do anything. We did what ever on our own because we wanted to. No evil force made us do it. Who do we think we are FLIP WILSON? We have a thought that leads to an action. Did the Devil plant that thought in out head MAYBE but he didn't force us to do anything. God gave us FREE WILL. So man up and face the truth. You did whatever because YOU WANTED TO.

    1. James's Avatar James

      Exactly... Satin is the ego being egotistical.

  1. biblical scholar's Avatar biblical scholar

    You all make fun of her, but isn't this Christianity's origin story? Mary slept with a ghost and conceived Jesus??

    1. Lea Weisenbach's Avatar Lea Weisenbach

      Mary slept with an alien??...She had to make a good story up because she would of been put to death.. If you really Beleive something your mind can deliver...

    2. Don's Avatar Don

      Um, hopefully she's older than 12 - you did know Mary was 12 in the story, right? Probably one reason (of many) that priests think it's okay to diddle children.

      Also. I giggle at any story involving ghosts, goblins, bogarts, elves, etc. Sorry, just a personal trait.

      1. Travis Wilbur's Avatar Travis Wilbur

        ^says a person on a webpage devoted to Religion, which is known for belief in gods, angels, demons, magic, miracles, demihumans, demigods, mysterious food falling from the sky, shepherd staves turning into snakes, etc.

    3. Andrew Seyfried's Avatar Andrew Seyfried

      There was no "slept with", orgasm or sex. It was a pregnancy beginning with the DNA of God combining with the DNA of Mary. This was the immaculate conception. It is a Holy thing which you should not mock or use sarcasm which will hurt others.

      1. Robert A Stiff's Avatar Robert A Stiff

        Blah, blah, blah. More fantasies for the illiterates to swallow.

  1. Patrick M Hauer's Avatar Patrick M Hauer

    Another creative response to getting caught in an affair, and denial to save face “ it wasn’t a man honey, it was a friendly spiritual entity, perhaps Casper the friendly ghost”.

  1. Carl Elfstrom's Avatar Carl Elfstrom

    Being Pagan, of the Wiccan variety, this doesn't surprise me, even though I don't know anyone involved in such relationships. However,I have read and heard of incarnate entities having sexual encounters, and even loving relationships with discarnate entities. I have also had some dreams while sleeping about such encounters, which could have been while astrally projecting, but I seemed to have been in the subjective dream state, so I have serious doubts about them being more than dreams. I would not ordinarily engage in casual sexual encounters anyway, but my only conscious fear would be that an unknown discarnate entity might be a succubus in disguise. I have had some girlfriends who have passed away that I wouldnt mind continuing a relationship with, and I have suggested it to them, but have not yet received a reply. Maybe I Better try it again sometime, when there's less of a chance that I'm just feeling horny and lonely.

    1. Daniel Adams's Avatar Daniel Adams

      If they pass your carnal knowledge will serve to hold them.....

  1. Carl Elfstrom's Avatar Carl Elfstrom

    Tomorrow is Samhain, during which time of year the veil between the dimensions of the living and the dead is the lightest. That's the best time for such kinky sexpots to hang out in haunted locations,especially in pornographic bookstores and movie theaters where people have died, especially while tea room tricking, and having a killer orgasm, still looking for more.

    1. Carl Elfstrom's Avatar Carl Elfstrom

      The things people do, just to get off.. I wish I knew Amythist Realm. I'd be the first trick - or - treater, dressed like a ghost, at her door tomorrow night.

      1. Carl Elfstrom's Avatar Carl Elfstrom

        I misspelled Amethyst.

    2. Daniel Adams's Avatar Daniel Adams

      I first kissed my wife and also my girlfriend before her on Halloween

      1. Lionheart's Avatar Lionheart

        Hopefully, that wasn't a frightening experience 😱. I'm sure it wasn't 🤗


  1. Dr. Daniel R. Thomas. Ph.D. D.D's Avatar Dr. Daniel R. Thomas. Ph.D. D.D

    Co 11:14 No wonder, for even Satan disguises himself as an angel of light.

    I have no problem believing in the Spirit World. There are way too many references in both the Old Testament and the New Testament that speak to this very thing. Jesus Christ and His disciples cast out many spirits that were recorded doing many different physical things to those they took control of. Of course they mostly abused their earthly companion, but sex can be a form of abuse as well. In this particular case the spirit came between a woman and her husband and destroyed the sacred bond of marriage. So it would not surprise me at all that this woman is indeed having a "sexual relationship" with a spirit. I can easily see Satan himself seeking to destroy a holy bond like a marriage by showing infidelity to a spouse.

    Everything that we are told of regarding Heaven is that it is way beyond what we can every imagine this world offering to us. We are also told that the Spirits are much more powerful than we are. I can well imagine that the "spiritual act" would therefore be much more physically intense and even more physically satisfying than the "earthly act."

    Joh 3:19 "This is the judgment, that the Light has come into the world, and men loved the darkness rather than the Light, for their deeds were evil.

    I can believe this actually can happen. I am truly sorry that the relationship between this woman and her earthly husband was not strong enough to overcome it. I am even more sorry that this woman's faith was not strong enough to see through it and to be able to deal with it in a way that would be pleasing to God.

    Because we know that God hates divorce.

    Mal 2:16 "For I hate divorce," says the LORD, the God of Israel, "and him who covers his garment with wrong," says the LORD of hosts. "So take heed to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously."

    1. Travis Wilbur's Avatar Travis Wilbur

      God may hate divorce. And while it's true that divorce has detrimental effects on everyone involved (incl. children), God does recognize the necessity for divorce in some circumstances (such as infidelity).

      "It is better for a man to live alone in the attic of his house, than to live with a quarrelsome wife." ~Proverbs 25:24

      ^This verse is what eased my mind enough to leave the Hell that had been a mistake of a 5-year marriage.

      Just sayin'.

      1. James's Avatar James

        God hates? God is love. Does love hate? NO.

        1. Andrew Seyfried's Avatar Andrew Seyfried

          Yes God hates. Love hates evil. God hates sin and everything that pulls you away from him. But he didn't give up because he sent his son to show his great love for you by taking your sin upon himself and dying on a cross. He rose from the dead to prove his divinity and because His love is greater than even death!!!

      2. Dr. Daniel R. Thomas. Ph.D. D.D's Avatar Dr. Daniel R. Thomas. Ph.D. D.D

        You are correct. Christ Himself stated the requirements of divorce. The OT even points out the "adultry" Israel committed against God by breaking His Commandments. While God hated and punished the nation for it, He also opened the door for repentance and forgiveness.

        I am sorry for your loss. No one should ever have to endure abuse from a spouse. I pray you have or will find peace.

  1. Lori's Avatar Lori

    Sounds like a fun time!!!! Or perhaps a really vivid imagination. I just wonder what the kids will be like. Personally, I've never encountered a ghost. That doesn't mean they don't exist, but this sounds a bit far fetched. Happy Samhain to all!

  1. Lea Weisenbach's Avatar Lea Weisenbach

    Boy..oh boy..what a wet dream. I think this is just away not having to be in a real relationship..Sad..It looks like no man can satisfy her..Or maybe because its a sin..its a way its not a sin??? But its sure mental illness. Happy Halloween everyone!!?

  1. Gary Hynous's Avatar Gary Hynous

    I guess you could say this lady was ghosted. I wonder if she felt anything other than in her imagination. I have a friend who has, at times, been visited by spirits. Her experience was very real and she is a devout Christian. One theory is that these spirits are have not yet completed something very important to them so they hang around the living trying to get some closure on unresolved issues.

  1. Frank Wasson's Avatar Frank Wasson

    The 30 or so ghosts in the room with me right now disagree. . . . "Dude, did Dr. Delusion just scam another humanoid b***h or not."

  1. Antonia Blue Star's Avatar Antonia Blue Star

    As an energy healer, I work with clients on a daily basis to clear entities and attachments.

    Because some people have not had a paranormal experience, or are not energetically aware, they write off the experience as a psychological dysfunction. Some people have been "occupied" since birth. For others ... it may be an ancestral/generational agreement.

    Some beings given permission to occupy are benevolent. Most are not. However, the agreement, in the beginning, is generally consensual.

    In spirit sex, the occupier may present itself as a spiritual teacher, long lost love, or some other romantic notion. It may not actually be just one being but a "hive" of beings.

    It is always interesting to me that as humans we wish to pick and choose aspects of our belief system. We choose to believe there is a Jesus and angels. We choose not to believe that the divine creates perfect polarity and that demons and dark entities do not exist.

    Much like parasites that create cravings for sweets, fats and carbs in our physical being, psychologically, entities manufacture subliminal messages and thoughts that are not our own.

    When we see an image of a mass murderer or serial killer after the act, often there is a soule-less or look of evil upon their face. Their divine being has checked out. Their being has become fully occupied by entities, demons, etc... Mass addictions to opioids, alcohol or any action that creates pain and suffering is the energetic food of dark beings.

    We all have entities. We only become aware of beings taking up space in our system when we evolve energetically and our energetic perception heightens. Learning to bring in the LIGHT and clear ourselves on a daily basis helps to evolve our enlightenment consciousness and liberate our being.

    Brightest Blessings, Antonia Blue Star Energy Healer

    1. James's Avatar James

      Lot of truth to your comment. What ppl lack understanding in becomes "the devil".

    2. Lori's Avatar Lori

      Antonia...I understand that you are deeply invested in your views of metaphysical energy. I agree that there can be polarities of this energy, but I also believe that the polarities are created by us. Energy is energy. It is a neutral force that doesn't hold good and evil in its original form. I believe in Personal Spiritual Realities. Within these realities we create thought forms, whether they come to us by way other peoples projected images or of our own creation. This person has created her own spiritual reality in which she has a thought form as a lover. Many people have a need for such things and they consciously or unconsciously work the energy to form what they want it to be. If it makes one happy then there's no problem with it, but if they are tormented by it they have the ability to reject it if they desire. Unfortunately, most don't realize that this is the case and many times they are pushed by someone else's belief to believe they are possessed, when in fact no one is truly possessed. It's a choice. It's too bad some practitioners confirm that possession is something concrete.

      1. Larry Larson's Avatar Larry Larson

        Your thoughts become your reality. Source being provides the energy; we provide the forms.

        1. Lori's Avatar Lori

          Exactly, Larry.

  1. Carol W Waldenburg's Avatar Carol W Waldenburg

    I can't believe we're writing responses to this drivel - we have much more important things to spend time on.

  1. Dennis's Avatar Dennis

    Atonia Blue Star got it right. And though I don't advise this activity I have known 2 others who have been involved.

  1. Laura A Anderton's Avatar Laura A Anderton

    Whether or not that this is a figment of imagination, this gal is happy !

    1. Debora Cousins's Avatar Debora Cousins

      Luv Your Reply!! LOL!!!

  1. Bill Fox's Avatar Bill Fox

    Time for separate checking accounts and possibly only renting property.

  1. Larry Larson's Avatar Larry Larson

    My experiences in this regard have been encounters with the nonphysical counterparts of beings who have held human form at one time or another, some of whom also have a current physical existence in an alternate time/space dimension. I applaud this woman for attempting to explain something that is difficult to explain from a physical perspective. When your sense of personal self identification has shifted to your greater nonphysical self, it all makes perfect sense. We are all a lot more than just these physical bodies and we all have a greater nonphysical self that has meet-ups all the time with other nonphysical beings.

    Sorry the word "ghost" has gotten dragged into this conversation. It's a physically biased term that muddies up understanding the underlying reality. They're not "dead" beings; they are just not projecting a physical presence into this particular time/space dimension. I talk with nonphysicals all the time. I'd be happy to meet her partner. Perhaps we'll set that up when I've got some free time.

  1. Debora Cousins's Avatar Debora Cousins


  1. James's Avatar James

    There is a lot of energy in the universe, we are but a small speckle in that vast pool of energy. Energy humans know so little about, what they lack understanding in or about is considered VooDoo and not provable by double blind studies.

  1. Kenneth E. Salvage Sr's Avatar Kenneth E. Salvage Sr

    This is just another manifestation of an absent or hollow soul and the results of that condition. She needs to have consoling by a minister.

  1. Lionheart's Avatar Lionheart

    It's nothing new.....I guess Amethyst Realm bettered Mary's experience by 19, who alleged to have had sex with only one ghost. Joseph bought the story though, along with billions of others that like believing in fairy tales. It seems Marry got away with it though. Were any of them holy ghosts, like in Mary's story?


  1. Debbie L Sturgill's Avatar Debbie L Sturgill

    Ok.um.. I'll be brave enough to admit to such an encounter. I have even had myself tested and am psychologically sound. The Being is an anti-loyalist angel of the so called "fallen type". Ever read the Book of Enoch?

  1. Tamara Connery's Avatar Tamara Connery

    As a life long medium, I have had ghosts clime in bed with me, but fortunately only one was human, and all he wanted was some cuddle time and to tell me what the source of his guilt was which was preventing him from crossing over ( or “going home” as I call it.) While my heart ached for him, I gave him a good piece of my mind about how he should have asked first.

    Any one who agrees to engage in sexual acts with ghosts is risking great harm to themselves and anyone else living in the same home. It’s better to buy a good vibrator or two, or three….

    I have always tried to develop a relationship of trust with all spirits who contact me, in the hope of one day talking them into going home. I have only rarely encountered spirits who say that they have something which they are certain that they must accomplish before they can move on, but these individuals have been very grateful for my company until that happy day.

    This time of year, I do tend to see, feel and hear more ghosts than any other time of year, but as I rarely encounter truly mean and or angry spirits, I rather enjoy their pranks and practical jokes.

    I have also had several instances where the resident spirits at local cemeteries call upon me to assist a member of the newly dead to go home. Usually this is someone very young ( under age five) or someone who’s mental capacity was limited during their latest life. I am always happy to assist in such cases.

    Nearly every house that I have moved into has had at least one resident spirit when I move in. Most never make themselves fully known to others in the house. Those who do are perfectly willing to live according to my ground rules, which are: 1.) Never frighten any child or animal living in or visiting the home. 2.) Respect the privacy of the home’s residents and visitors.

    If you find yourself in a situation where you are living with one or more spirits, remember that you are always more powerful than they are. And as for demons, these are just dead humans who are very frustrated and angry with their situation. I find empathy with firm insistence upon living by my rules, gives us both time to build trust. Once we trust each other, they are able to find the courage to go home to be with all their loved ones again. I must add here that when it comes to angry spirits, I usually get a great deal of assistance from that spirit’s who are on the other side.

    Oh yes, pleased warn your young ones not to spend much time with spirits. They can often give very poor and often dangerous advice to the young and trusting.

    Good luck in your ghost adventures, and always be courageous, firm and careful!

    …Blessed be, Tamara C.

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